Now the cursor moves to the left! Oh well. Ted teaching Texas Hold ‘Em with Gus, his son Dennis and the three boys Ethan, Isaac and Peter.
Ted and Marilyn in Savannah.
A beautiful very old live oak in Johnson square.
This is my personal journal of our travels since retirement as well as our day to day enjoyment of life at home in Texas. You're welcome to read along.
We had a most delightful trip on Delta to Hilton Head Island through Atlanta. Ted has Silver/Elite status for life based on his 3 million miles with Northwest when Delta took over close to his retirement. Once I put his FF number in (I didn’t have it when I made the reservation) we were upgraded to Delta Comfort with better spacing between seats. We also each were allowed to check a suitcase for free. Not a tremendous thing but it was appreciated. Our flights were on time with just enough connection time to get a bite and then wing our way to Hilton Head Island.
We picked up our car, stopped at Kroger to get some breakfast and lunch things before going to the house. Google 18 Audubon Pond, Hilton Head to see this gorgeous home that is in a rental program. The bedroom with the blue bedspread was ours and included a huge bathroom and even bigger walk in closet. The owner is our hosts’ son and we were invited for a week of vacation with them. Their Denver neighbors came too.
We ate at Salty Dog’s in Sea Pines, The Old Oyster Factory where Gus hosted us all to celebrate his son’s anniversary, at a restaurant in Beaufort and at Paula Deen’s in Savannah. Other than that we ate at home. I cooked a pork tenderloin dinner on our last night.
We learned another of Ted’s nieces, Amy, died on Saturday night. She had battled breast cancer ferociously for five years only to have it spread to her lungs, then bones and finally her brain. She leaves her husband of 20 years and four children aged from grade school to high school. At Lynn’s funeral in Cleveland Ted’s brother told us when Amy passes not to feel obligated to come. He said it is an expense that is not necessary and plenty of family would be there. When we received the call, the message was the same, so we honored his wishes.
Our flights back were just as easy as the week before. However, I have flown internationally repeatedly and never had such a thorough pat down at Security. I guess they have more time than in Houston. They were polite, the agent pointed out to Ted that he should watch my things. I gave them no grief, and got none in return.
We are home for three days and then we leave for Elk City, OK to have our bedroom slide floor repaired on the RV. A seal had ripped and water intrusion has made the floor soft and will rot if not taken care of. We learned this in Indiana but didn’t have time to have it taken care of there. Rolling Retreats has the best reputation in repairing Mobile Suites so our Labor Day weekend will be spent heading there for an 8 am Tuesday morning appointment.
I am going to attempt to post some photos of our trip. Wish me luck.
More than a week has gone by and I haven’t written a thing! It is mostly due to writing about men stripping your roof off and banging for days overhead is not too interesting. I did play cards Tuesday which was a nice reprieve from the noise.
Unfortunately that afternoon Carol was involved in an accident. Her three passengers sustained injuries. Ted immediately went to the scene to be with Terry. When Terry followed the ambulance, Ted took John, who was with Terry, to get his truck so he could go home. Then he went to the hospital, took Terry some food and then came home once Carol’s tests showed bumps and bruises but nothing broken.
One lady had 4 broken ribs and a punctured lung, another a hairline hip fracture and another a broken elbow. It cast a pall over our whole group of friends. Everyone was released by the weekend and are home recovering. We have offered to help if needed but they were all getting along ok and knew we were dealing with the roofers and getting ready to leave again.
Saturday was church and dinner out by ourselves. The Astros were less than entertaining this week and cabin fever was setting in. Monday the roof job was finished. The house was in order, laundry done and clothes ready for packing.
We leave tomorrow morning for a week. If I have a chance I will give you a shout out from Hilton Head. And if this site cooperates, maybe a few photos of the group.
We had been looking at motorhomes and twice came within a hair’s breath of buying one. They were both 2016 Newmar Ventanas. The one in Florida just presented too many logistics problems along with timing issues but the one here by home looked promising. We had made a deal, put $5000 down to hold it until we returned.
We went to see it and found it very nice so we had to have an earnest discussion about parting with that much money on a depreciating asset this late in life. I had prayed about it and I took it as a good sign when a couple who looked a bit older than us were on the Newmar factory tour and were buying a brand new one. However, the next day our 68 year old friend who was just retired and was preparing to "head out" after cataract surgery went to bed and never woke up. Talk about mixed messages!
We have had no debt since 2003 and I didn’t want to start. But this outlay would take all my liquid "emergency/big ticket items/vacation" money and that made me uncomfortable. In the end we decided to pass. Then God sent the reminder. RV repair, maintenance and tires, balance due on Ireland trip, a new house roof. And now I am headed for a big dental bill. Listen up, Lord! Thank you for showing me we made the right decision but enough is enough. I got it!
Saturday we drove to the campground Susan and Tommy were staying in. They were heading out for a two month trip to Colorado. We had four Newmar books for them to look at from the factory in case they decide to replace their Allegro bus. They will both be retired next spring, have time on their side and would get use out of a new unit over the next decade or two.
They had their kitchen faucet replaced but were not getting water. They had a call into a plumber but Ted crawled around looking to be sure the line was turned on at the manifold and tried to find a problem but couldn’t. He stood up, pushed the faucet handle sideways, the way ours works, and the water came on. They had been pushing it back and forth, for hot or cold, versus sideways to turn it on! We all had a good laugh.
We wished them safe travels and left for church. Afterwards we went to Landry’s for dinner with Terry and Carol. Our meals were excellent and the only problem was the waitress paired me with Terry and Carol with Ted on the checks. It only took a few minutes to get it squared away.
By Sunday morning I knew I had a dental problem. I had two bridges put in sometime in the late 90s. Several years ago, the back molar on the right side where the bridge was attached gave out. They had to remove the bridge, remove the root that was left of the molar and made me a partial since I was not a good implant prospect. Now the front tooth holding the left bridge is hurting big time. I have a call in to the dentist since today is Sunday and am expecting a similar outcome. Once again our travel schedule may get in the way.
We drove to Forrest City, AR on Thursday, then Carthage, TX on Friday. That allowed us to pull into Woodlands Lake about 11 am on Saturday. We took about three loads of food and clothes home and I started laundry right away. I had stripped the bed down to the mattress pad so all that was three loads before I did another three loads of our clothes.
We stopped at 3:00 to shower and dress for church. I didn’t write a check because I didn’t have my mail that would include our church envelopes. Afterwards we went to dinner with Terry and Carol.
We finished up on Sunday and cleaned the rig from top to bottom but waited until Monday to put it away. We have an appointment in Elk City, OK the day after Labor Day to have a repair made on the bedroom slide. We didn’t know about it until we were ready to leave and we didn’t have time to stay. Elk City is closer than Knoxville or LaGrange!
Tuesday was mail day and I spent quite some time in the office clearing my desk. Nancy does such a great job on the mail so it doesn’t take nearly as long to go through it. But there is always the pouch of paper I take with me and spend time emptying on our return.
By Wednesday things settled down so I had my nails and toes done. I need to call for a haircut now.
I followed Ted to the Brake Shop on Thursday so I could bring him home while they looked at his ABS sensor. It kept turning itself off and even turned itself on when it shouldn’t have. The Ford dealer in Indiana identified which tire it was but didn’t have time to pull the tire to look at it.
Then I met Jody for lunch to catch up since our last breakfast date. We had a delicious lunch and 2.5 hours of visiting. It was an enjoyable afternoon.
We will only be here for two weeks before taking off to Hilton Head. Then it will be a 6-7 day trip to Oklahoma after our return from there. I will be glad to have close to two months at home eventually.
I had seen a wasp so went out on the deck to knock down the nest with the broom. I noticed a crack in the Hardy Plank and some paint bubbled. We called our roofer and the news was not good. That whole edge where the diverter is set could be lifted up. Since the roof is over 16 years old and has been through 3-4 hurricanes it seems it would be sending good money after bad to just repair it. So next week we will have lots of banging going on around here. He is going to run a gutter and drain pipes on either end rather than replacing the current diverter system.
After picking up the truck with a new ABS sensor, we went to Sam’s for a few things and were home the rest of the day. Ted is having to do coverage of Houston, San Antonio and Lufkin where newsprint is being shipped again. He spent a lot of time on the telephone discussing preliminaries. I guess he will be making a few road trips when the paper arrives.
And another weekend is upon us. Hope you have a good one. We are just trying to stay cool and I worry about the men putting the shingles on next week.
Wednesday through Friday is sort of a blur. We did laundry at Kara’s, ate at a Mexican restaurant with them on Friday night and after church on Saturday, our granddaughter Ally and her husband came over to Kara’s for pizza. Kelly and Pat were in Cincinnati attending a Marriage Encounter Conference. They are the Detroit Diocese leaders. On Sunday, Ted went shooting, Kara and I went shopping for baby gifts and Bill had to work. We all met back at the RV for dinner. We are enjoying what we consider nice weather though the locals are still complaining about the heat. Everything is relative!
Monday I was under the weather and we just stayed here in the park. I felt fine Tuesday morning though, so we set out to redo the baby shower gifts. The bed and dresser I planned to buy isn’t needed until Ally and Bidkar move to a 2 bedroom apartment so right now the car seat is of utmost importance. You can’t take your baby home in a car without one, Hmmm ... at $300 a crack I wonder how that plays out!
Anyway, Ted, Kara and I all signed up for the Buy, Buy (isn’t that the truth!) Baby 20% off coupon. We found the car seat ($300), the second base for the second car ($129) and the stroller ($300) at the store in Utica. I only mention the price because 20% becomes significant! Since I signed up for both of us using two different emails, but from the same computer, only one worked! Kara’s was obtained earlier and had expired! Plan B, stand at the checkout and find more coupons. I used my Retail Me Not app and snagged one that worked. I took Ted’s phone and just went directly to the site and hit another one that worked! Savings $146!
While they loaded the three huge boxes into the truck I asked the lady who wheeled them out what happened to the $5 umbrella strollers we used for our kids. She laughed and said "I know, crazy isn’t it?" Anyway, we will address the bed later but I had to come home and rearrange my gift bag. I had also purchased a book and an outfit so I took the tissue off the dollhouse furniture, put the registry paper with the three items circled and the receipt into the book and used the tissue to wrap that and the outfit. I think I am good to go now!
We took the boxes to Kara’s and used the code to open the garage and put the boxes inside. We had no room in the RV. I found a WW studio with open hours so we decided to stop and get my July weigh-in over with. I thought I was okay but I wasn’t quite sure like I am at home. Woohoo! I was 2.6# under goal. Now I am good until August 31. I think I will weigh in BEFORE Hilton Head though.
We came home but eventually went back into town to have dinner with a cousin of Bill’s who we know and had lost her husband not too long ago. We had a great meal and a long visit. I ordered a low points meal and celebrated my 2.6# cushion with a small dish of Ray’s chocolate malt crunch ice cream! Ray’s is a Detroit institution located in Royal Oak. It sure tasted good.
Wednesday we had Kara’s family back out for dinner. The weather had cooled down to the 70s so we had a fire and s’mores for dessert. Morgan just received her learner’s permit so she and Bill drove for 22 minutes around the park. There is an app on his phone that tracks her drive time! They stayed until the whole bundle of wood had been consumed. It was getting dark when they left for home.
We left on Monday as planned. Since it wasn’t a weekend and there are several campgrounds in the area between Texarkana and Little Rock, we didn’t make a reservation. Out first choice was full, second was closed permanently, third closed due to flooding, fourth gave the last spot to the guy in front of us, fifth was also flooded and finally we found a place 6 miles off the interstate just outside of Little Rock.
When we went in, our place was a mess from all the potholes and bad roads. Arkansas did warn us "Potholes Ahead."
The crockpot was on the floor but ok. The cabinet doors had opened and Corelleware was broken into a zillion white shards all over the place, the microwave had opened and the glass plate was across the RV in pieces, the pendant light was hanging 6 inches down on wires with the shade broken and the clock was off the wall!
We cleaned up the mess and assessed the damage. I have lots of Corelleware so no big deal, the pendant lights are due to be changed out anyway so that will be taken care of, the clock did not break and could be rehung but I need to order a new glass plate for inside the microwave.
We had to take the narrow country road six miles back to I-40 and relaxed a bit. But that didn’t last but two hours and kapow!, the pothole that disrupted the inside had ruined a tire. We were on the side of the road for almost three hours. I spent a half hour trying to explain to Coachnet road service they cannot tow a 5th wheel, if she sends a flatbed it had to accommodate 50 feet because the truck would need to pull the trailer on to it and I just needed a tire changed. In all the discussion she never asked if we had a spare!
We waited an hour for a young man to arrive, with a small jack. This didn’t bode well. Eventually agreeing he was ill equipped to do the job at hand, he used a stack of our leveling blocks to lift the jack up to the frame and Ted’s long handled screwdriver as a replacement for the 6 inch handle his jack had. We did have a spare and finally we were ready to roll.
Through all of this I had been on the phone with my nephew who dispatches at my brother’s trucking company trying to find a replacement for the spare. He couldn’t find a Goodyear but did find a Firestone not far up the road in Brownsville. We stopped and had it put on the rim, they tucked it back up underneath and we continued on to Yuma, TN where we spent the night.
We were only about 100 miles from Nashville and contacted the same tire company there and made an appointment to buy 3 new Firestone tires and have them put on, placing the Goodyear back as the spare. $1400 later we were on the last leg of our trip which was just minutes from Nashville Shores.
Things got better after that. We got checked in, parked and set up, and spent the evening watching TV,
Thursday was a leisurely day and a few people arrived. My sister rented a pontoon and we went for a 2 hour boat ride on the lake. We had the entire Marina Restaurant filled at dinner. The younger group went into Nashville bar hopping, Friday the entire group made it in. We had all 24 lakeside cabins, two hillside cabins and two RV spots rented for 98 people.
That evening we had the pulled pork Ted had smoked for a group dinner in the common grassy area between the lake and the cabins. Having no one outside our group in any cabin gave us full rein of the area. There was even a small play area for the little ones. A poker game ensued, a lot of visiting went on, and a bunch of little kids were running around.
Saturday was a group effort breakfast of scrambled eggs, pancakes and sausage. I scrambled the eggs while niece Cindy and husband Tim cooked the rest. We had two tables on their porch set up buffet style. You went up one set of steps, got your food, crossed the duplex porch and down the opposite steps! We had gathered all the picnic tables into one area for eating,
At 10 o’clock the water park opened and everyone headed that way. We had a huge tented area reserved for our group. Dinner was served there at 5 pm but people drifted in and out throughout the day. The food was delicious at dinner and by 7 we had all returned to our accommodations for a final evening together.
The rest are photos taken throughout the weekend.