It’s been a tough Spring! My azaleas produced buds about 3 weeks late but another cold snap and they just hung there. They never did bloom. There seems to be a lot of perennials that are still in hiding so I have no idea how much replanting I will need to have done. I haven’t seen a single bluebonnet! This is the smallest yard we have ever had and the one we have spent more money on than any of the others including Florida.
Other than fussing over the yard we didn’t do much else as we waited for depositions to take place. They had moved the dates a few times so we just kept our calendar as clear as we could.
We went to our never ending doctor appointments. Routine and follow ups keep the cycle of constant vigilance going!
We played cards on our three regularly scheduled dates. And finally we were deposed! We met with our attorneys to discuss what sort of things they would ask and how to answer them. Say as little as possible, just answer exactly what they ask. OK!
Ted went first and I was not in the room but they allowed him to stay when it was my turn. It started out funny … where did you two meet, how old were you, how long have you been married. Ok, Donna, just answer the questions. “In front of a firehouse, 14 and 15; 61 years next month.” Response - Wow! I answered as carefully and truthfully as I could.
Then it was Kara’s turn via Zoom. She and Bill flew down the day of the accident because I was in Florida with 4 of our family. She had knowledge of those first days that I did not. She did great. Our lawyer said we all did great and he was very encouraged.
And now we wait for mediation in July. This is keeping my travel plans in flux and that is hard for me.
Ted needs to go to Michigan to the oculist to have a new artificial eye made. As he ages the socket and muscles change. That will take a week of appointments. We will drive and take 3 shorter days versus our previous normal 2 to get there. Then after we will stop in Ohio to visit some family and take 2 days to get home from Cincinnati.
Kara has planned 5 days at Disney at Bay Towers at the Contemporary followed by a 5 day Disney cruise for all of us and Morgan at the end of August. She does so much for our whole family that we agreed. We have no interest in the parks. Too much walking. Last year we went to a “free evening for DVC owners” to Animal Kingdom. We rode the Safari train, ate some free food and left Kara and Bill there with their friends. We will use the pools, visit our friends in The Villages and Palm Coast and spend time with Kristin too. Then we will get on the ship!
Kelly, Ally and CeCe just spent a week in Orlando with Auntie Kristin. They spent lots of time at Disney and stayed there a few nights. CeCe was living the good life with three adoring adults indulging her every wish. But she never gets demanding or “bratty.” She understands “no” without arguing.
Then we are invited to a week at Hilton Head with my old Hoechst boss at the end of September. How we are going to handle the time after the cruise until that week we are still working on. I am leaning towards driving home after the cruise taking our new pace of 3 days and then flying to Savannah. Gus has offered to pick us up and they will have a car. Time will tell. This house is Gus’s son’s VRBO so a rental could cast us out. That happened once and we understand it could happen again and we are ok with it. But we have been there twice already. Fingers crossed.
We had a neighbor that lives across from us fall using his walker trying to navigate the curb. I heard him yelling and shouted to Ted while I ran to rouse his wife. We got him up and into the house. He had no injuries thank goodness.
Then I get a message from our neighbor next to us who is away that he received an alert water was running non stop in his home. He wrote to me so I went over and their hall toilet was running. I flushed it just in case it was just stuck but when it filled it kept running so I turned the water off to it completely. I wrote him and said it was ok for now but I think the float may need replacing when he gets back. The man who fell had his wife bring me a lovely Easter lily. That certainly wasn’t necessary but it was appreciated.
I did attend Newcomers Continental Breakfast and had a great time. Lots of beautifully displayed delicious food and conversations with old and new friends.
We have no Easter plans other than Mass at 11 followed by breakfast out somewhere that is not a reservation only buffet. We just don’t eat that much anymore.





























































